
To clarify this post is on the aesthetic genious of a man.Sometimes, given the time and the place a man can be the closest thing to physical art. No, my perception on male beauty is not muscle bound and this isn't about finding the most compatible, reliable, and kindest person you can and calling it 'inner' beauty. This is something new and old. The untimely beauty of the male gender we're sometimes too stupid to notice.
It's when you find yourself unable to concentrate on anything else but his actions however small they maybe. Those actions could be expressions, gestures, or the tone of his voice. In all honesty sometimes it's not even about what he says. He could be saying nothing at all but it's the soft unintentional noises that could drive you insane. The rhythm in the way he breathes, a simple scuffle of his shoes on the pavement, or the sounds of his clothes rustling against itself those are some sounds that could drive you insane. You can even find beauty in a somewhat inappropriate time. When he stares vaguely at you/nothing and sips his drink while notibly being so tired. When he sits there reluctant, feeling frustrated/angry he pinches his forehead amidst the anguish and grief. The times when he's hurt or confused, things become deafeningly silent. Those are some inappropriately beautiful situations that can remind you of his humanity. Physical anomalies that can be attributed to his beauty are not only the basics of what you're accustomed to. The size and weariness of his hands, his unkept hair, his unshaven stubble, and the sutle shape of his lips are things we often overlook. Somethings are all too perfect to explain. This was all about realizing what was already there that even men don't realize themselves. Perhaps this is the epitome of vanity and selfishness, solely basing male beauty on the outer layer of perception and thought, but this IS after all a fashion blog. Any how, the simplest things, those are the concepts that remind you that life is not too complex after all you've just found happiness in the form of a man (yours or not) where else could you find it?
















Photo Credit: Hedi Slimane
P.S. As you can tell by now I'm a hopeless romantic. Most of the inspiration for "they breathe fire" and this piece derive from my boyfriend, who is the most brilliant man I've ever known. Also babies, I want to thank you all for contributing your thoughts to my blog. Lately, I've been discouraged about continuing this project but each time someone new/old re-establishes my ambitions so thank you with my deepest sincerity's. Currently I am revising some of my earlier posts because I feel they are dry. On an added note, I am trying to reply to everyone as soon as I can ♥








103 comments:
i loved reading this post! mm i always love a bit of eye candy ;]
xoxo,
La C.
that was so beautiful!! and very true :)
i was always a cynical girl until i fell in love & i became another romantic <3
i've been with my bf now for a long time so our relationship has reached a point of stasis, but he still does little romantic things for me....sweet post lovie!
amazing
that was such a pleasure to read and such a treat for the eyes.
♥
absolutely fantastic pictures.
there is just something magical about black and white pictures.
wow, now THAT was pure poetry. i really didnt think of a man like that until now. i mean yeah they can be a form of art but the way you expressed yourself, it showed a thorough perspective of the infinite capacity of compassion and love you possess for another human being. no matter if it is love or not. in this day and age, people rarely speak with passion. but giiiiiirl, youre oozing with passion and that just reiterates that there is still love and hope in this dry, DRY, world... thanks for that.
This was amazing, it really moved my heart. I've never taken the time to realize anything this deep. I really appreciate this. You have a gift girl an amazing gift.
That is truely perfection on all levels. You clearly have a vast intellect and i am jealous. It's rare that i get to read something so touching and interesting. you clearly are genious.
the pictures are so gorgeous and the men are so hotttttt. i really enjoyed reading this. the truth is i never have realized that about men before they are amazing. i will try to pay more attention to my bf like you described and see if that changes anything.
i lovedd reading this post, and love your blog overall (: you're definitely right about the finding beauty in the smallest things. when looking back, it's all these small things added together that makes them beautiful.
great post.
and i think this is really reflected in hedi's photography. simple, honest, and raw photographs of everyday things that are so overlooked, but so significant and beautiful!
GAAWD I love Hedi. I can't wait to be done with school here in Tunis. Done with school= MOVE TO PARIS FULLTIME. My flat is just WAITING to be moved into in the seizième arrondissment.
That was just .. beautiful. ♥
this is really something
made me smile
made me well up
ina good way
i loved it x
love this pics! i finally linked you, i have been so bad blogger cos i have been so damn sick :(
hey, i linked you finally, i have been so bad blogger cos i was sick so long..i love those pictures!
wow.. first thank you so much!really good to hear that from you.and i totally know what u mean with "stiff blogs".same pictures all the time blabla.
and awesome pictures.they are sooo beautiful
XOXO
Lady I berloody love this post, I love the way you write you seem uber intelligent and intriguing to my mind.
Your pictures are always so beautiful, where on earth do you find those beautiful male species from? I want one!
Loves
Twigs xxx
Thanks so much baby. I think I've much more to improve on, mine are like all so random and poor quality! And OMG, I saw my favorite male model, COLE MOHR!!!! I LOVE HIM, HE'S SO DAMN CUTE. But Bill is No. 1! (:
XOXO, LOVE YOU
sigh. that was so beautiful. i don't have someone to love at the moment, but i completely understood every word. this has just gotten me pining. here's to men and their unconscious beauty ♥
omfg you MUST read Paradise Kiss.
It's only 5 books (oh so painfully short) but it's what got me hooked - especially Ai Yazawa.
you NEEEEEED ParaKISSSSSS ♥
I think that this perfect stranger stole my heart too ;-)! Loving this blog.
amazing pictures, love the black and white. love the post below--fan of rodarte!!!
xoxo
cool song! :) and the last pictures look gorgeous! xoxo
Eye candy in the morning, yay :)
this was a fabulous post to read!
now i must read more of your blog!
Thank you for comments <3
I linked to this post on my last post (that didn't sound odd at all). I really loved it.
Thank you for comments <3
I linked to this post on my last post (that didn't sound odd at all). I really loved it.
I think you are so right!! Lovely blog btw:)
I have a new blog, come and give an opinion, it would make me so happy!
ohhh cutee!!! especially that third pic! mmmmmmmmmm.....!!!!
and hey! good things come to those who wait right~! hehe, no rush ! => => => i am excited tho!
Wow babe this is delicious... you always include the most amazing images.
And the artsy black & white effect only seems to add their appeal.
Loving it... you rock it.
xx
Hedi Slimane is a genius!
Hey China, would you like to link exchange?
It's both poetic and academic, in a way. I like it.
Sighhh
and melt
I love boys. I really do. And I LOVE this post - you've really articulated the attraction so well. It really is all these little nuances that make the difference :D
you are beautiful, inside and out.
ah this was a great post.. really made me think..thank you for it! good luck hun on everything you do!
great post I really like what you had to say. your very intellectual
wait you told me i say insightful things? what? no no, this is amazing. its soooo beautiful and your dead on- i am going to write you a reallly really long email about this....wait and seeeeeee, i mean read
xxx
heeee china you always make me smile with your oh so cute and sweet comments! haha i seriously look forward to your comments! oh yes and i adore slimane's works! so simple yet powerful!
I love this blog... lots of pictures!!!
Hey China,
this post is awesome. I loved reading it altho I have a crap load of stuff to do. lol
I am curious what a great boyfriend u have and how many great insights he gives u!!!
Thank you for always stopping by my blog and leaving meeh really sweet comments!
interesting post and excellent pictures! i am a hopeless romantic as well haha <3
This was incredibly lovely to read. A fantastic change of pace, and it successfully called recent thoughts of my friendboy to mind. Lovely, really.
lovely piece, and beautiful images to acompany it! i shall visit again.
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sarajjj
Love what u wrote, u are so right :D
Go on with the blog, I'm really new here, but I really like ur blog, one of my favourites, for sure :D
Hola
Just to let you know I've tagged you in a post dearest.
loves Twigs X
ah i really like the guy with the tattoo around his neck
Mmm, these post is sensastional! So beautifully written, and the pictures are gorgeous, as well!
You have such a beautiful blog, I'll be back! And thank you so much for your sweet comment, I'm so very flattered that you like my blog so much! <3
xoxo,
S-C
yikes nice pictures;) Keep on keepin on darlin, you are a talent and I love your blog.
CC
YUM! i need your jacket!
CC
YUM! i need your jacket!
CC
I am no hopeless romantic but you just made me question why i'm single!
great post x
i love this. romance and love are the best elixer. thank you for the complement, so so sweet, and it made my day. xx
great post. will be back after i recover from my flu bug.
hey, baby :)
the boy in the middle biting his shirt is so cute!! xx
This post is eloquent, as I was reading it I was thinking about my bf. Beautifully written.
Don’t get discouraged babe, keep on blogging… a lot of people appreciate your blog. Keep on keeping on.
FYI
Isn’t Hedi a pure genius. I will never tire of his photographs.
Ah yes, boys, can't live with them, can't live with out them.
I wish I had a boy to call my own, sadly I don't, oh well.
P.S. Thank you for the sweet comment ^_^
ahh, MEN! j'adore...
I love your blog, it is so chic and entertaining :) Also, I'm digging the Daria cartoon you have. I thought everyone had forgotten about her!
ps - thanks for your super sweet comment :)
lots of love,
La C.
ahh louis garrel = love.
i'm happy you feature him on this wonderful blog!
this was such a fantastic read. you're an amazing writer. garh, can't get over how lovely your blog is hehe. did you want to exchange links?? xx
beautiful post and amazing photography on those images! You have an incridible gift with writing!
mmm delicious agreed!
i got for guys with skinnier legs than mine
x
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wanna link?
i love youre postsss
I love your blog its always interesting you're a very good writer
xoxox
boys boys guys guys man man.. lol i like looking at guys. but i don't like liking guys.. i have not met any guys i liked since MAY! hahahahahah
im sure i already said it--but love this post dear xo
I guess I'm not the only one feeling a little boy crazy right now. You were far more eloquent than I was !
lovely blog, i'll be back
Nice pictures! Could you change the music so it wouldn't start to play everytime one enters here?
juliet xxx
kool music on your blog anyway a kool blog.
i love it when you do posts like these, the way you capture the idea with your words. it's always so inspiring!
and you've done a fabulous job here, sometimes this kind of beauty does go unnoticed
and don't you ever stop blogging (unless you ABSOLUTELY must) but i adore every wonderful post
:)
Hi :)
I just found your blog (reading your comment on "Jamie") and I love it!
My last post is also about a man (a model) Cole Mohr (I see you have his photos in this post too)!
Loved reading this and really love your blog :)! I've checked every single post in here (and I got addicted to your blog)! Do you want to exchange links? Please, please? :D
Give me a tell!
Love
Su
thank you so much darling
i know i liked that show!
and i'm positively in love with the third picture.. it's so alluring
Love black and white photos, these was very nice!=)
thank you for the other comment dear! :D
le garcon <3
yummy.good to see some blokes.even better when they are half naked x)
you have a beautiful sights of things hun.
fantastic post!!
mmm lovely pics!
x
why can't there be pretty boys like them around my surroundings? hahaha
You have put into words what I really mean when I say "I love men" ! x
your blog is lovely- and i love this post with all the eye candyyyyyy :):):)
I completely agree with everything that's here :)
luvs, what's the matter? why u discouraged?
x
FANTASTIC photos <3<3
wonderful photos!
i love your blog!
xoxo,
MJ
aww i was going to ask if you were basing this on anyone in particular :)
you write so well! don't leave us!
and you're right, of course. i think this can apply to both men and women but i guess guys are overlooked more often since women are "supposed" to be beautiful?
Aw girl dont get discouraged! I would kill for the amount of comments you get :'(
I can relate. When I see gorgeous boys I zone in on then and everything around me blurs and fade away. I need a gorgeous boy in my life that I can wake up to everyday! :)
awwwwww im such sucker for romance.. :) keep bloging please :)
Oh china dear, you shouldn't have posted this. I want a boyfriend even more now :(
this is has to be the best post ive ever read, the photos are enticing and the content i can picture.
WOW what a nice post!
And I totally agree; men are beautiful and your mentioned details is the reason!
Really like your blog, origional, creative and inspiring.
this is lovely what a intresting piece.
wanna link exchange? : )
thats the exact way i think and view life when i look at not only men but humans as well. But I love just wathcing they're movement, the way they react both outloud and silently to stimulus. I almost feel like men were out on this earth for our sole entertainment-tho many women can not see what you and me clearly do.
p.s. I am a secretly a hopeless romantic but shhh dont tell anyone im disguised as a critic
come for a visit sometime
that was beautiful and true.. I am a HOPEFUL romantic.. hehe
Ah mazing you got skills girl. I wish I could write half as well!
It seems my language skills need to be strengthened, because I totally can not read your information, but I think this is a good BLOG
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Very romantic and sentimental i love your blog its unlike anything ive seen in a long long long time PLEASE continue to blog for a long time your boyfriend is so very lucky to have you china ♥!
Very romantic and sentimental i love your blog its unlike anything ive seen in a long long long time PLEASE continue to blog for a long time your boyfriend is so very lucky to have you china ♥!
Very romantic and sentimental i love your blog its unlike anything ive seen in a long long long time PLEASE continue to blog for a long time your boyfriend is so very lucky to have you china ♥!
SO sorry i think i double posted!!!
Sexy as heelllll lol how inappropriate.
After catching up on pages of unknown entries, I have to applaud you for all your amazing entries, particularly this post, which after reading it's entirety, I loved it; every word! I love your blog, my only down point is that you don't feature enough ethnic models, but I wouldn't say that's really your fault because the fashion world doesn't either, but everyone can make a difference. One of the best entries by far!
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